Be Better and Happier at the same time.

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Web3 Matters
November 08, 2023

Today’s topic deserved our entire focus this week because of the power it has to change our lives.

Today, we’re diving into:

  • 🔧Growth Toolkit: Emotional Intelligence, MoodFlow.

PLUS: 

  • 💡Community Highlight: Meet Coach

  • 🔊Spaces Alpha: Wen DeFi Summer?

🔧Growth Toolkit

Weekly tips and resources to grow as a person and as a web3 builder.

Unlocking Emotional Intelligence: Boost Performance and Be Happier🌤️ (5 mins)

  • TLDR:⏰

  • Life is not a picnic. Don’t live it blind and connect with your emotions.

  • Start with Self Awareness and Self Regulation. Learn about yourself and connecting with others will get easier.

  • Science shows that EI can boost motivation and create healthier connections.

Life can sometimes feel like walking through a minefield while blindfolded.

Being unable to understand ourselves can have ripple effects; straining not just our own peace of mind but also our relationships with others.

Misinterpreted actions, unspoken tensions, limited potential—these are the signs of an uncharted emotional landscape. The anxiety, self doubt, anger and hopelessness that comes along with this is real.

Emotional Intelligence (EI) will help you take off that blindfold, and put big red flags over each mine. It’s about more than just avoiding personal and social challenges; it’s about unlocking a life where self-awareness leads to inner peace, and empathy opens the door to richer, more powerful connections.

Before we get into the step by step guide for you find your inner peace, let's put some common myth’s to bed.

Demystifying Emotional Intelligence: 3 Myths

1. Myth: EI Is Inborn and Unchangeable 

Truth: Like any skill, EI can be developed. With practice and intention, anyone can enhance their self-awareness, self-regulation, and empathy.

2. Myth: EI Is About Being Nice All the Time 

Truth: It's about recognizing emotions accurately, not just displaying perpetual positivity. Sometimes, EI involves tough conversations and setting boundaries.

3. Myth: EI Isn't as Important as IQ 

Truth: While IQ might measure how knowledgeable you are, EI is often a better predictor of success in relationships and career!

A Practical Guide to Emotional Intelligence: Lessons from Neuroscience

Step 1: Cultivate Self-Awareness

Self-awareness is the cornerstone of EI. Begin by setting aside time each day for reflection. Ask yourself:

  • What emotions did I feel today?

  • What triggered these emotions?

  • How did my emotions affect my actions?

  • Bonus: from our friend Gentle Tornado, rewire your mind by embracing gratitude. Write three things you’re grateful for.

Journaling can be an effective tool here, allowing you to track patterns over time.

Step 2: Practice Self-Regulation

Once you're aware of your emotions, the next step is to regulate them. Andrew Huberman's research suggests deep breathing as a way to calm the nervous system. Try this when you feel overwhelmed:

  • Inhale deeply for a count of four.

  • Hold for a count of four.

  • Exhale slowly for a count of six.

Consistent practice can make this a go-to method for managing stress.

Step 3: Fuel Your Motivation

To stoke your internal motivation, create a vision board or write a mission statement that aligns with your personal and professional goals. Remind yourself daily of your 'why' to maintain focus and drive.

Step 4: Develop Empathy

Empathy requires effort and intention. Make it a habit to:

  • Really listen when others speak, without formulating your response.

  • Observe body language and tone to fully understand their perspective.

  • Respond with thoughtful questions to demonstrate your genuine interest and concern.

Step 5: Enhance Your Social Skills

Effective social skills are often about communication. Practice active listening and clear, assertive communication. In conflicts, strive to understand the other person's viewpoint and seek a resolution that respects both sides.

Implementing the Change

To integrate these steps into your life, start small:

  • Choose one step to focus on each week.

  • Reflect on your progress and challenges at the end of the week.

  • Adjust your approach as needed, adding more steps as you become comfortable.

Drawing on Huberman's insights, remember that EI isn't just an abstract concept—it's deeply rooted in our biology. By understanding the science of how our brains process emotions, we can approach EI with precision.

If you’re like us, having a tool to actually SEE your progress and notice patterns, is like adding rocket fuel for growth. Here is just the tool that will help.👇

Mastering EI through Self Awareness - with MoodFlow 🧠 (2 mins)

Harness the Power of Mood Tracking with Science: Discover Moodflow. This is not a paid promotion. I (Trav) have used this in my own journey and it helps… a lot.

Building on the power of EI, we want to introduce you to a companion for your EI journey: Moodflow, a free app to track your mood (and more) each day.

Why Mood Tracking? Great question!

Science tells us that what gets measured, gets managed. Moodflow taps into this principle, offering a space to log your emotional ebbs and flows. Recording our moods can lead to patterns becoming clear, providing insights into what lifts us up or brings us down, and why.

It's like having a personal psychologist in your pocket, one that helps you connect the dots between your daily activities and your inner emotional world.

The Science Behind Moodflow

Mood tracking is grounded in solid research. Studies have shown that consistent mood tracking can lead to:

  • Improved Self-Awareness: Just as journaling can provide clarity, regularly recording your mood can heighten your understanding of your emotional triggers.

  • Better Stress Management: Identifying stressors can help you develop strategies to manage stress more effectively.

  • Enhanced Well-being: Tracking progress can be motivating and uplifting, contributing to an overall sense of well-being.

My favourite thing about this app is that you can track way more than just your mood. You can also find patterns with: sleep, activity, exercise, social interaction, diet, symptoms, and more.

Find it in Google Play or the Apply App Stores.

💡Community Highlight

Recognition for our Web3 Matters community members who are making a difference.

Meet Coach🙏

Coach is one of those people on X who brings positive energy and peace every time you interact with him. We met Coach as one of our guests on Web3 Matters a while back, and are we ever glad that we did.

He is a family man, experienced marketer, a promoter of personal growth, and one of the most grounded and genuine people on our TL.

He recently started a new segment on YouTube and X called: Coffee With Coach.

It’s an incredible short form video series where he speaks about coffee and life. Every single episode I’ve watched, I’ve had at least 3 “Ah Ha” moments that have helped me in my own journey.

Check out his YouTube Channel Here, and give him a follow on X. You won’t regret it.

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